Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Two degrees of separation

More confirmation of what I said in my last post! The other day I had a guest, here for the first time, who said she thought she knew my mother. Turns out they grew up in the same little town, and my grandmother used to babysit her! Her last name was the same as some distant relatives I remember visiting with my grandmother as a child. "Do you think we're related?" I asked. "Probably," she shrugged.

Switch to the paternal side of the family: last night another first-time guest arrived asking if I knew certain other Stramels. They turned out to be two of my first cousins, whom she'd known through mutual friends. Like I've been saying ever since I moved to Hays in 1997, the most degrees of separation possible here are two.

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Perks

Of all the perks that come with innkeeping, the best of all has to be having the opportunity to meet and get acquainted with all sorts of people I wouldn't otherwise meet. The Tea Rose Inn breakfast table serves as a nexus for common interests and experiences astonishingly often.

Then there are the guests who return again and again, becoming friends in the process. The pastor whose congregation gives him and his wife a Tea Rose Inn gift certificate each year. The local couple that spends each Valentine Day here, the eastern Kansas family that stays here once or twice a year on their way to Colorado, and many others. Then there are those whose jobs keep them travelling to Hays on a regular basis, sometimes for two years or more. It's so gratifying to me that they choose the TRI over all the other choices in Hays, and it's great to welcome them back each week.

Last weekend I had a visit from an African boy who stayed here with his father last summer, as he was getting settled into boarding school in Hays. We shared a pot of tea and caught up with each other. I keep in touch with the father by e-mail, and his son knows that, besides his school community so far from home, he has one more friend and haven to count on in Hays.

These are the rewards that I never expected to reap when I began innkeeping, but they are at the top of the list of why I've been doing it for nearly 11 years!